I am here to help you to give the attention and care to your relationship that it needs and deserves, to cultivate your couple connectedness.
Do you feel the connection?
Healthy, happy and secure relationships are all about being connected….they are about the emotional bond that connects one person to another.
Our partner is our ‘go to‘ person, the person we feel safe with, the one that we can turn to, who is there for us when we need them. We need to know that we matter to this person, that we come before anything or anyone else. The relationship needs to come first. When we are securely connected we feel safe emotionally and we feel good about ourselves and our partner.
Or do you feel disconnected from one another?
Most couples seek counselling when problems within their relationship lead them to feeling they are no longer connected with one another. There are many reasons for this including issues related to:
- Communication difficulties
- Arguing/shouting/silence
- Feeling misunderstood or invalidated
- Feeling unloved
- Lack of appreciation/attraction
- Lack of physical or sexual intimacy
- Critical/blaming partner
- Withdrawn/distant partner
- Power/control
- Trust
- Infidelity
- Grief and loss
- Conflicts about parenting/blended families
Some people may feel neglected, believing that their partner no longer cares for them. Some may feel that they are being controlled, criticized or smothered by their partner or that nothing they do is ever good enough. And others may feel angry and critical of their partner’s behavior.
In the end both partners feel unheard, invalidated, disempowered, alone, and sad.
Is this how you are feeling?
Do you need help to repair your relationship, to feel that loving connection between you and your partner again?
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